May tanong ako sa’yo? Ilang beses mo na bang napanood sa telenovela, narinig sa radyo, nabasa sa dyaryo o napakinggan sa mga
kaibigan, kamag-anak, kaklase o sa kakilala mo ang kwento ng ibang tayo na ang utak ay sing laki lang naman ng munggo pero hindi hamak na mas successful at mas may datung keysa sa’yo?
Doesn’t it make you sick to know that they have more success in their lives as they have better car, more money, better jobs and you on the other hand, want to kill yourself and wonder why it hasn’t happened to you no matter how hard you may try.
At sa kasalukuyang nangyayari sa ating bansa ngayon, maaring nga siguro na ang mga taong gaya ni Janet Napoles at iba pang corrupt na pulitiko ang dahilan ng pagiging mahirap mo pero sa maniwala ka may o hindi, maraming tao ang naging successful sa buhay kahit na ilang Janet Napoles ang dumaan sa henerasyon nila?
So what do you do in order for you to achieve that level of success you’ve been aiming for all your life but can’t seem to get?
They say that man is a creature of habit, which CAN BE a good thing, but ONLY IF done right. They saythat if you do that same of everything, then you will get the same of everything., all you need to re-program your thought patterns towards something that is positive, true and attainable.
As the late great Napoleon Hill, would say in his own words:
“You can be anything you want to be, if you only believe with sufficient conviction and act in accordance with your faith; for whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve”
Maaring sa iba, nung nagsabog ang Diyos ng swerte, lumabas ang karamihan at nagdala ng kutsara habang yung iba naman ay hindi alam ang gagawin kaya nagdala na lang ng tinidor (toink!…)
Ang iba naman ay nagsasabing, ang pagiging successful ay para lang sa mga dati ng mayaman, likas ng madaya o corrupt. Kung ano man yang paniniwala at dahilan mo kung bakit hindi ka pa nagiging successful, sa maniwala ka o hindi, may Proseso at Syensya (Science) ang pagiging successful ng tao.
At hindi dahilan ang kasarian, kalagayan, edukasyon o estado mo sa buhay, lahat pantay-pantay pagdating sa pagiging successful. Ang kailangan mo lang ay maniwala sa sarili mo at buksan ang iyong isipan.
Hindi rin mahalaga kung ano man ang gusto mong ma-achieve sa buhay gaya ng pagkakaroon mo ng magarang kotse, maraming pera, magandang katawan, mataas na posisyon, malaking bahay, etc. Lahat ay kaya mong makamtan just as long as you follow a simple pattern in your life in achieving your goals.
Dahil dyan, naghanda ako ng patterns for you to follow and achieve that life-long dream that you’ve been dreaming of….
1. Decide on your goals
Isipin mo na lang na ang buhay ay isang napakalaking mapa. Kelangan mong malaman kung nasaan ka na at kung saan ka pupunta. Kaya ang pagdedesisyon kung ano ang gusto mong marating sa buhay ay ang unang hakbang para sa success mo.
2. Make worthy lists
Reminding yourself of what is important to you means that you have to make a list of goals and ideals that you mean something, not just to you but to other people that are important to you and dependent on you as well. It is the only way you can have meaning to your goals and aspirations.
3. Plan, schedule and execute
Kung bibigyan kita ng isang malaking canvass at mga gamit para sa pagpa-painting para i-drawing ang buhay mo, paanong pagpipinta ang gagawin mo para maging isang obra mastra mo iyon? Gamitin mo ang iyong imahinasyon ang malayang magpinta ang iyong pangarap. Careful planning, commitment to schedule and execution is a step by step process so make it count.
4. Focus, focus, focus
Maaring magreklamo ka at sabihing kulang ang 24 oras sa iyo para magawa lahat ng gusto mo, pero sa totoo lang, tama at sapat lang iyon para magawa ang lahat ng importante sa buhay mo. Kung ang ibang tao ang mahilig pumunta ng gym (gaya ko…ehem), tumakbo sa threadmill, o maglaro ng basketball para manatiling focused sa gusto nilang mangyari sa buhay, kaya mo ring gawin yon. Sa totoo lang, exercise makes your brain more oxygenated and thus, makes you think and focus more.
5. Jump right in
Naging hilig mo ba ang sumakay ng bike nung bata ka pa? Diba hindi ka naman natututong sumakay ng bisikleta ng nagbabasa ka lang, diba? Kelangan mong ilang beses munang sumukan, sumemplang at ulit-uliting tumayo at sakyan ulit ang bisikleta mo hangang sa matutunan mo ito. Ganun din sa success, kelangan mong ulit-uliting subukan, madapa, at muli ay tumayo para lubusang matuto.
6. Network with people
You have to realize that there are other people have already made their success. Look for those people and do whatever you can to network and be close to them. It can be that you can ask them to be your mentor or have a project with them in order for you to learn their success habits in the process.
7. Believe in a Higher Power
Realize that you where brought here on Earth for a reason and by a Higher Power. Nothing can solidify your faith in achieving anything insurmountable than by believing that there is Divine Power watching over you.
8. If everything else fails, you can always try again
TANDAAN MO, you are not a total failure until you believe yourself that you are. And that there is no such thing as failure… JUST RECYCLED DREAMS.
Contributing Author
Nino Abit – is the founder and developer of Smart Pinoy Networking isang website dedicated towards giving insightful tips and tricks and how to make your multilevel marketing better. He later became an envangelized video blogger after being fondly influenced by Christopher Lee Angeles’ inspirational and motivational work.
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